KUALA LUMPUR: The horrific and heartbreaking death of five-month-old toddler, Adam Rayqal Mohd Sufi Naeif, in early July 2018 is a grim reminder of the need for parents to be on high alert.
The boy was reported missing from the babysitter’s house in Kampung Nakhoda, Batu Caves, on July 3, 2018, before his body was found placed in a green zippered bag inside the compartment. home refrigerator freezer by the police late at night.
Babysitter, Noor Aqilah Abd Rahman, 36, who was later charged with committing the offenses, pleaded guilty to exposing the toddler in a way that could cause injury to his body. head. She also pleaded guilty to disposing of the baby’s body with the intention of hiding her death to escape punishment.
An autopsy revealed that Adam Rayqal died of head injuries from blunt trauma. On November 11 of this year, the Court of Appeal upheld the six-year prison sentence imposed on Noor Aqilah.
Ironically, concerns about these centers, which have often been in the intense media spotlight, seem to be endlessly endless in view of child abuse.
Child abuse, neglect and neglect as well as child abuse deaths are not decreasing, with the authors showing no remorse for what they did.
The case of a Singaporean woman who pleaded not guilty in Ampang Magistrates’ Court here on October 13 for abusing an autistic child is behind the recent examination of child abuse.
It has previously been reported that the boy’s father with autism noticed bruises on his left shoulder and both eyes when he picked it up in the center on October 1.
A video also went viral showing a woman behaving violently towards an autistic child. Police said one of the teachers informed the man that his son had hit his head against the table because he did not want to eat his food.
Feeling suspicious, the father checked closed circuit television (CCTV) footage of the scene and filed a police report indicating that his son had been abused.
The case of two boys who were allegedly abused by their nanny during an incident in Iskandar Puteri, Johor, is also drawing public and media attention.
According to media reports on October 6, the mother said she found wounds on her sons, aged six and 11, and believed they had been scalded by hot water and suffered cigarette burns on their bodies.
Earlier on October 5, Bernama reported that a seven-month-old baby girl suffered bruises on her body after being placed with a babysitter in Taman Selayang Jaya, Selayang near here.
Police said the baby had bruises on his cheeks, left ear and left thigh. The bruises were noticed by the baby’s 40-year-old mother after picking up the baby, who was placed in the care of the babysitter.
The doctor’s examination revealed that the victim had soft tissue injuries in her left thigh and left side of her face, and she received outpatient treatment at Selayang Hospital.
Nothing is more traumatic for parents than learning that their child has been seriously or fatally injured. This can be particularly devastating if custody of the child has been given to a caregiver who has provided negligent care or who has been abusive.
One of the most common types of child care neglect that a bad babysitter can be responsible for is not supervising a child properly. Careless babysitters have caused babies to suffocate by drinking milk or children by eating food; children strangled by the straps of a swing and children drowned in the bathtub, etc.
For teacher Ramisah (not her real name), 42, the news of child abuse brought back sad memories of last year’s incident involving her son, who is now three years old.
“It was like a bad dream to me when I got a phone call from my babysitter saying my little boy had fallen off the stairs and rushed to hospital after he lost consciousness. My son was kept for five days for further medical examination. Alhamdulillah (praise be to Allah) he suffered no serious injuries.
“My babysitter told me that my son tried to climb the stairs and fell. However, I sensed that something was wrong and forced her to tell the truth. She finally admitted that she was cleaning the floor and my son tripped over the wet floor, ”she recently told Bernama.
On lessons learned from the incident, Ramisah said she no longer sent her son to babysitters who operate from their own homes, but instead switched to licensed day care centers to care for her child when she was going out. work.
Telling her story, she said, the babysitter’s house is located close to where she lives, coupled with the babysitter having 10 years of childcare experience with the costs being relatively cheaper compared to licensed daycares.
“In fact, I was rushed when choosing the babysitter because I had to report to work after my postpartum period. Also, I had no previous experience as this is our first child, ”she said.
Meanwhile, Association of Registered Child Care Providers President Anisa Ahmad, who does not rule out that most cases are due to unqualified babysitters, said such incidents are often linked to those who are not registered.
She said that all of these people, whether they are operators, supervisors, child care providers / early childhood educators, or home babysitters, should take the PERMATA course on caring and early childhood education or Kursus Asuhan PERMATA (KAP), run by the Department of Social Welfare (JKM), and they also have to pass practical and written tests.
“The KAP certificate is a license for those who register as licensed child care providers under the JKM through child care centers. They must also adhere to all standard operating procedures (SOPs) in institutional, workplace, community or home day care centers.
“For childcare providers, especially housewives who have more than four dependent children, they are required to register with JKM as home daycare, in accordance with the provisions of the Day Care Act 1984 (Bill 308), she said. Bernama recently.
Those found guilty of not registering their daycare centers can be fined up to RM 10,000, two years in prison, or both.
These are provided for by the Day Nurseries Act 1984 (Act 308), as well as by the Day Nurseries (Compound Offenses) Regulations 2011, Day Nurseries Regulation 2012.
Sections 30-32 of the Children’s Act 2001 state that “any person who, being a person having custody of a child, abuses, neglects, abandons or exposes the child in a manner likely to cause him physical or emotional injury or causes or permits it to be so abused, neglected, abandoned or exposed; or sexually abuses the child or causes or permits the child to be so abused; commits an offense and is liable on conviction to a fine not exceeding RM50,000 or imprisonment not exceeding 20 years, or both.
Anisa said, among other things, that registered childcare providers must have experience looking after their own children, nephews or nieces, or the children of other people. They should be natural nurturers, with a natural ability to care for others and love children.
They are also required to complete first aid training and food preparation courses. It is also mandatory for them to be vaccinated against typhoid, the latter having completed two doses of the Covid-19 vaccine.
“Other SOPs include, each caregiver should prepare a logbook for each child in their care to record daily activities for monitoring as well as parent referral. They must also display their Child Care Center Registration Certificate issued by the State Community Development Director (PKMN) at the premises or home, in addition to the periodic check by JKM enforcement officers. .
“Depending on the ratio, one child care provider is allowed to care for a maximum of three infants one year old and under, one child care provider up to five (1: 5) children aged one year and under. year to three and a child care provider to 10 (1:10) children aged three to four, ”she said.
Regarding the exorbitant fees imposed by licensed day care centers that have prompted many parents to send their children to child care homes or unlicensed day care centers or nurseries, Anisa said the issue should be carefully considered by authorities. competent to avoid additional pressure on parents.
“Every parent wants the best for their children. However, not all can afford to send their children to licensed daycare centers that offer organized services, so they are forced to send their children to babysitters who are not certified and registered to manage their related expenses. at the cost of living, ”she said.
She said there are daycares that offer incredibly low fees, leading to fears that they will “wash their hands” whenever an untoward incident occurs at their center.
Anisa also advised parents not to be easily swayed by social media ads when hiring babysitters for their children. Instead, they should go directly to the babysitter’s house or daycare to find out about their background.
“Make sure the babysitter or daycare is registered with JKM and has to display their registration certificate issued by PKMN as most of them are trained. In addition, parents can submit their recommendations or complaints directly to JKM.
“When meeting with the caregiver, parents should check their background and interview them or ask various questions to test their knowledge and experience.
“If the answers given and the environment of the babysitter’s home or daycare are satisfactory, then only their services could be considered,” adding that the spotting of babysitters at the eleventh hour should be avoided.
As a reminder, article 2 of law 308 defines a day care center as a place that receives four or more children under the age of four to be looked after for remuneration.
While Article 2 of the 1993 Day Nurseries Act (Act 506) on “care” includes protection, supervision, rehabilitation and training, while “crèche” refers to the crèche and daycare center. home.
At home or in a center refers to a room where four or more children of a household are received to be taken care of for a fee. Whereas a daycare is a place where four or more children are received for a continuous period of more than three hours a day, at least three days a week, with or without exchange for a reward.